Ghosting Feels Good Tonight

Dear Diary: Ghosting Feels Good Tonight

The unexpected date

Lena swiped right, intrigued by his adventurous profile. Sam’s pictures showcased thrilling hikes, deep-sea dives, and a constant smile. His bio was sprinkled with witty remarks and a hint of mystery. After exchanging a few messages filled with banter and playful flirtation, they decided to meet for dinner. Lena’s heart fluttered with anticipation as she imagined the potential of a night filled with deep conversation and shared laughter.

The date night begins

Arriving at the cozy, dimly-lit restaurant, Lena spotted Sam waiting by the entrance. He looked just like his pictures, if not better. His smile was genuine, and his eyes sparkled with a hint of mischief. As they sat down, Lena’s excitement grew. She had high hopes for the evening.

A disappointing realization

However, as the night progressed, Lena’s initial excitement began to wane. Sam’s idea of adventure, it turned out, was meticulously selecting the best brand of kale chips at the local health food store.

His deep thoughts revolved around his ex-girlfriend, whom he claimed “just didn’t get him.” Lena forced a polite smile as she listened to his monologue, but inside, she felt a growing sense of frustration and disappointment.

The struggle to stay engaged

Sam droned on, missing the subtle cues of Lena’s disinterest. He started explaining the plot of the movie they were about to see, completely missing the point and spoiling any potential enjoyment for her. Lena’s mind wandered, imagining herself anywhere but there. She glanced around the restaurant, seeking an escape route, her patience wearing thin.

The escape plan

Lena knew she should have left earlier, but her natural inclination to be polite had kept her there. Finally, she reached her breaking point. Feigning an important work call, she excused herself. Sam looked mildly disappointed but mostly oblivious. Lena hurried out, the cool night air feeling like a breath of freedom.

The sweet relief of ghosting

Back at her apartment, Lena poured herself a glass of wine and flopped onto her couch. The relief washed over her. She picked up her phone, contemplating sending Sam a polite text to explain her sudden departure. But then she thought of all the tedious, uninteresting dates she’d endured in the past and how they had drained her.

“No,” she decided firmly, feeling a sense of liberation. “Ghosting feels good tonight.” She deleted his number, vowing to be more selective in the future.

A new hope

As she sipped her wine, Lena scrolled through her dating app, hopeful once again. She dreamed of meeting someone who truly shared her interests, someone who could make her laugh and engage in meaningful conversations. She imagined weekend trips, exploring new places, and sharing stories late into the night.

A message

Lena closed her eyes and silently wished for a connection that would fuel her faith in love. She knew that the dating world was unpredictable, filled with highs and lows. But she was ready to take the leap again, armed with the lessons from tonight.

“Wish me luck,” she whispered, hoping for a better tomorrow.

Disclaimer:

*This story is a work of fiction created for entertainment purposes only. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental. The characters, events, and settings depicted in this story are products of the author’s imagination.

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