Game On! Level Up Your Dating Life with These 6 Dating Tips

Game On! Level Up Your Dating Life with These 6 Dating Tips

Hey friends!

Let's talk about ditching the "free-balling" approach to dating and stepping into something intentional and empowering. ‍♀️ After all, we deserve quality connections that make us feel amazing, right?

Being single for a while has given me some major insights on what works (and doesn't) when it comes to finding love. Let me share a little story about my own dating journey...

Healing First, Heartbreak Later:

I came out of a long-term relationship (a decade plus, yikes!) feeling a bit lost. What did I even want in a partner anymore? Diving back into the dating pool without some serious self-reflection felt like a recipe for disaster. So, I took a year off to focus on myself – healing past hurts and figuring out what truly mattered to me.

Making a Game Plan:

Remember that "pros and cons" list you made in high school about everything? Yeah, I did the same thing for my dating life. This helped me identify what worked in my past relationship, what didn't, and how I wanted to feel moving forward. This "healed me" version of myself became the foundation for my dating strategy.

IRL vs. Online: Finding the Balance:

With a clearer picture in mind, I dipped my toes into both online and in-real-life dating. Online dating offered a wider net, letting me connect with people outside my usual circles. But let's be honest, there were a lot of "time wasters" lurking around too. For those with potential, I had a little "funnel system" to see if they made the cut (maybe we'll unpack that on the podcast ;)).

Meeting people in real life (IRL) was a different experience. I learned to naturally connect without spilling my entire life story. This "mystery" vibe (think James Bond, not creepy stalker) helped me gauge their energy and suss out if they were genuine or full of BS.

The Takeaway: Follow Your Purpose!

The truth is, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating. But being intentional can make all the difference. Here are 6 ways to ensure you have a positive dating journey:

1. Be Your True Self: Shine bright, beautiful! The right person will love you for who you truly are, quirks and all.

2. Define Your Relationship Goals: What are you looking for? Casual flings, a long-term commitment, or something in between? Knowing your desires helps you navigate the dating world with purpose.

3. Prioritize Your Needs: Don't settle for less than you deserve! Set healthy boundaries and communicate your wants clearly. A fulfilling relationship respects and supports your well-being.

4. Cultivate Self-Care: You are a queen (or a rockstar, whichever empowers you most!). Make time for things that nourish your mind, body, and soul. Feeling confident and happy is the ultimate dating accessory.

5. Welcom Dating Opportunities: Don't shy away from meeting new people! Attend events, try new hobbies, and expand your social circle. Stepping outside your comfort zone can lead to unexpected connections and personal growth.

6. Trust the Process: Dating can be exhilarating and sometimes challenging. Trust the process and have faith that everything is unfolding as it should. Whether successful or not, each interaction is an opportunity for personal growth and learning. Trust yourself, believe in your worth, and know that the right partner is waiting to join you on your journey.

This intentional approach doesn't mean there won't be bumps along the road. But by prioritizing your needs, embracing your true self, and being open to new experiences, you'll be well on your way to finding the love you deserve.

Let's chat in the comments below! Share your own dating experiences and what you're looking for in a partner.

Love,

M